"i have been at the bedside of many people in their final moments, when they stand on the edge of eternity, and i have never heard anyone say, "bring me my diplomas! i want to look at them one more time. show me my awards, my medals, that gold watch i was given." when life on earth is ending, people don't surround themselves with objects. what we want around us is people.. people we love and have relationships with.
in our final moments we all realize that relationships are what life is all about. wisdom is learning that truth sooner rather than later. don't wait until you're on your deathbed to figure out that nothing matters more.."
__ rick warren.

(i typed this up myself from his book called.. the purpose driven life.. you should all read it.)